About Me

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Who is Kayla Dhankhar?

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Before I started Coaching

Let's start with what brought me to the coaching world. I grew up in rural Indiana, with 8 brothers and sisters. My whole childhood I felt like I didn't fit in. I was constantly sick, and eventually diagnosed with Narcolepsy, a sleep disorder that has the potential to disrupt every area of life.

After stumbling through college I got my first full time job, and I was miserable. Even though I was exceeding the expectations of my supervisors, I couldn't keep my eyes open. I was just plodding through life with no sense of joy or excitement. After about a year, I was completely burnt out. I felt there was no choice, I needed to leave the country. I know this sounds extreme, but I was young and that's what got me motivated to make changes so I am so glad I had that desire.
I moved to Spain and thats when things really started to change for me. Well, I should say, that's when I really started to design my own life.

Changing my Life


I found new ways to manage my health through diet and lifestyle choices. I worked on my mental and emotional health. I developed new ways of thinking about the world as what I had always known to be true was challenged in a new culture in a new country.

I started learning about life coaching as a way to coach myself. One course after another helped me shed layers that were holding me back until I realized I had empowered myself to live a completely different life. Since then I have lived in Myanmar, India, and I am currently in Germany. As a coach, I continue to learn and grow, and hire coaches to help me along the way. As your coach, I will listen to you and allow you the space to process through your own thoughts and beliefs. I am a guide. You will access your own inner resources, and recognize the purpose you are serving.

I will act as a facilitator ready with a box full of tools to hand you when you come up against obstacles, and equip you to overcome them with your own strength and resilience.

How can I help you?

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Let’s focus on feeling authentic, connecting to our own hearts, and more peace of mind.

You are a unique being, and there is no one size fits all appraoch to your growth. You may have already read pile of self-help books only find yourself more lost than before on where to go next with your journey to becoming more of yourself. That is where a coach can help you. I will listen to you and allow you the space to process through your own thoughts and beliefs. I am a guide. You will access your own inner resources, and recognize the purpose you are serving.

I will act as a facilitator ready with a box full of tools to hand you when you come up against obstacles, and equip you to overcome them with your own strength and resilience.

Mission.

Bring my complete self to the conversation to allow clients to feel seen, validated, worthy, and powerful.

Vision

I see a world where every individual knows they are the creator of their own story and feels empowered to make a difference in the world around them.

Bringing it all Together

Mind

Thinking

Managing our thoughts because our thoughts create our beliefs, our beliefs create our actions, and our actions create our reality. 

Body Light Language

Body

Feeling

Reconnecting to our physical bodies because they are the source of our intuition and the vessel that feels the human emotions. 

Soul light langauge

Soul

Remembering

Connecting our spirits, souls, higher selves or whatever you want to call them is what gives us that extra spark and excitement about our mission in this life.